#018: Inside The Mind Of A Professional Dominatrix - with Mistress Marley

Mistress Marley, also known as The Chocolate Domme, is a very confident professional Dominatrix, who followed her calling after being fed up of being subservient to men and feeling unfulfilled. She now mentors over 1000 other Black and Afro Latina dominatrixes to stay safe and make a living being Doms. She went viral not long ago, a sweet force to be reckoned with and one to watch! 

We go over: 

• What exactly is a dominatrix and the different specialties within that such as FINDOM, Ebony Dom (white men subs to black doms which also centers around reparations), PRODOM and lifestyle Dom.

• How she got into the industry. How it’s been a therapeutic path for her and is now moving through the world with a newly gained confidence that commands respect. 

• Consent and respect.

• The different kinks she specialises in such as pegging, face sitting, arse worship, wax play, rope play, squirt play, feminisation, CBT, JOI, SPH, flogging, bondage, and many more.

• How to date with confidence and why she always lets the man pay. We also dive into her mindset when it comes to men.  

• Does she even want to date after a day of being a Dom? 

• The difference between dicriminalising and legalising sex work and her views on those. 

If you like this episode try: 17. Let’s Talk About Tantric Sex With Paal C. Bundz aka The Wildman

Come find Mistress Marley at thechocolatedomme.com & Twitter: eyesxonfire & Insta @thechocolatedomme_ & YT @thechocolatedomme

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