Abby went from being terrible at relationships to being great at them. She’s a psychologist who believes a leopard can change their spots and as a recovering heroin addict, she knows what she’s talking about.

We cover:

• We’re as happy as our relationship.

• To be good at relationships takes skills you're not born with but you can learn those skills. 

• We’re mostly competing for attention and time - turning relationship into work:

  • “You have to pull your weight.”

  • “You have to take this off my plate.”

  • “You have to do your fair share.”

• Being correct or effective: Which would you choose to have a more peaceful relationship?

• Competing over Sex, Chores and Money, and what questions to ask your partner to help resolve it & how to reframe you perspective.

• Abby’s method of: don’t S.A.C. your relationship, instead ask questions.

Mentioned in this episode: The work of Timothy Wilson 

• Find Abby @ https://abbymedcalf.com/   

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